To my friends and followers that identify as queer people of color please don’t ever give up. The struggle is oh so real. But we don’t have to bend over and take it either. The constant racist, sexist, transphobic, bi-phobic and other forms of nonsense we have to deal with on an even greater level than our white counterparts is not something we should ignore. Call that shit out. Do your best to topple the oppressors in their tracks.
Even though I bitch about being alone and single at times for the most part I’m pretty ok with it. I’m trying to start a business and create a life for myself. Not to say all but a large portion of guys my age are still very immature. No idea of what they possibly want to do. I don’t need someone who has it all figured out but have some kind of idea of what your life could be beyond Grindr hookups, weekend nights in the club and browsing Netflix.
I care about commitment and lets face it thats not a high priority to most, not in the days of clicking and swiping to get some dick or ass. Hey, that has its place, thats all some people want and that’s fine but I can’t try making a one on one relationship work with someone who has that as their plan, it just wont work.
I got shit to do. I don’t enough hours in the day to do my life and keep someone else’s ass on the same page with me. That’s not my job. I’m good with being single because I have a plan that needs more attention than some guy’s hole and ego.
Lol I really don’t have a fave. I appreciate so many of them. I’m even somewhat friendly with some and even have their numbers. They are such fun guys outside their work.
Wait in line cus I’m first :P
Continue to ask me questions. I hope you all still enjoy the quality of this blog and aren’t just following because you feel guilty :P
I know I said I would keep porn off my tablet and just on my computer but I just couldn’t help but put a few vids on it….woops :P